Tuesday, March 6, 2012

                                                About Homesickness
            The misconceptions of most people about homesickness are that it is nothing to worry about, and it does not lead to depression. People think usually it goes away quickly. However, it is a real sickness, not just nostalgia, and should be considered a serious condition. Homesickness is the emotional response of the brain that corresponds to depressed feelings of missing something or someone we are acquainted with. Therefore, the brain will send orders to the body, and this may cause physical pain any time you think of home.
Homesickness is not necessarily about home. It stems from our instinctive need for love, protection and security, feelings and qualities, usually associated with home. When these qualities are not present in a new environment, we begin to long for them -- and hence home. Homesickness is one of the frequent adaptation difficulties that happen to people who are far away from their native environment.
Many people experience homesickness, from kids to adults, females to males. Some examples include kids when they go to summer camp and university students when they are studying in different states and leave their families. Other examples are people who go as refugees to another country and leave their native country. The typical symptoms for homesickness are depression, dissatisfaction, frustration, insomnia, hopelessness, loss of appetite, anxiety and sometimes thoughts of suicide.  Because it has all these symptoms, it is a real sickness. For instance, depression has many of the same symptoms, including “Dramatic change in appetite, often with weight gain or loss, feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, feelings of worthlessness, self-hate, trouble sleeping or excessive sleeping, loss of interest or pleasure in activities that were once enjoyed, thoughts of death or suicide. From these two sets of symptoms, we can see how they are similar. Depression is a real illness. Therefore, homesickness should be considered as a real sickness too. Their original countries and the new soldiers when they go to a strange country often feel depressed.  
International students confront many hindrances, because of the transition that they made from their native country to a new environment. Whenever the transition from their country to a new environment is big, the possibility for homesickness will be bigger. Besides that, International students have unparalleled difficulties such as a new culture, distinctive customs, and language obstruction. Language is one of the hardest obstacles that face the international students, but in spite of that, many students come to the United States to get this scholarly advantage. Many international students fear not comprehending or translating the new language, and fear their classmates, because they will pronounce the word differently or they will not use exactly the same word that they should use. The other important subject that develops homesickness is age. Young students are most probable to experience mental anxiety, which causes homesickness.
                                        
There aer many ways to treat homesickness but, a few  methods that most specialists recommend. These include normalizing homesickness or coping with homesickness, building new social networks, and  helping them accept the new place like home. A study that was done on boys and girls between ages eight and sixteen years old showed that although boys and girls usually respond equally to the different treatments of homesickness, girls require more social support than boys, and boys usually engage in a lot more delinquent behavior than girls. This study found that the best way is to cope with homesickness are: Try to refrain yourself from thoughts that  will remind you of your home, look for counseling(Talk Therapy) to help you  deal with the illness through talking about what you think and what you feel, be in contact with your family and friends back home to make sure that everything is all right, have positive thoughts about the new place, and forget how important you are.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Twitter

I think Twitter is good, and I like it a lot. It is like an open book, everybody can read it. However, there is one problem, and that what make me worry about it, which is I cannot make new friends.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

My Winter Memory


Photo by Koroms Photo Stream

The favorite memory that I have about the winter is when, I first came to Vermont. That first winter was amazing. We weren’t use to live in a cold weather like that. When I first saw the snow, I was going to shop with some of my friends. That’s morning, it suddenly started snowing. For all of my friends this seemed to be annoying, because they weren’t expecting it to snow, and they didn’t dress up appropriately. But for me this was the most amazing moment I saw in my live. The snowflakes were so beautiful. It was very sunny cold weather, and it was snowing at the same time. It was like a gift from God. I was watching it astonishingly, and I couldn’t move my eyes from that sight while my friends were calling me to come to the car.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Blogs

           
            Most of the people use blogs for many reasons, like the freedom of speech, confidence; it shows the latest entries on top and the oldest ones at the bottom of the webpage, helps improve the writing skills, and for online business, blogging provides an excellent platform in to stay in touch with their customers and to gain new ones.
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·         Free web hosting
·         Shared web hosting
·         Virtual web hosting
·         Semi-Dedicated web hosting
·         Dedicated web hosting

There are many different types of blogs:
·         Business: Professionals ranging from realtors to lawyers
·         Personal: Like music, family travel, health
·         Non-profits: Like human rights groups
·         Private: Some people share their photos with their families
·         Sports
·         Schools
·         Politics
·         Automated blogs

Photograf by Mark
 ·         How-to, tips and SEO blogs
 ·         Affiliate marketing blogs
·         Warez blogs